You can’t please everyone

I’ve learned a lot of things this week and I wanted to share with you some of the truths I’ve come to accept. The most important one, though, has been the realization that you can’t please everyone.

It’s literally impossible to keep everyone pleased. Some people simply can’t be pleased no matter what you do. They won’t be pleased because they just don’t like you. They may not even have a specific reason they can pinpoint.

Everyday we may face someone who is an EGR (extra grace required). They say, “I try and try to make peace with this person, but I fail and I feel so guilty.” Yung mapapaisip ka na lang “may nagawa ba akong mali?” “bakit sobrang pinapakita niya na ayaw niya sakin?” “ano kaya ang dahilan?”. The fact is, it may not be your fault. It may be that the one you’re trying to make peace with has personal reasons not readily apparent or they are not ready to explain at present.

Be the best version of yourself and do not try to change who you are just to please them. Bless them, encourage them, be nice to them, respect them, and be thankful for them. Sabi nga kapag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo ng tinapay. Just do whatever is pleasing to the eyes of God, and He will give you peace.

❣️❤️😘😍😯